I see myself as EXTREMELY lucky to have married my BEST FRIEND. And I did so despite INTENSE pressure from the elders not to do so! Without going into details, the elders felt that this was a poor choice and made sure to ask me all sorts of uncomfortable and invasive questions about our (by their standards) 'lengthy courtship' ('How physically intimate have you been? Have you ever done this, have you ever done that?') during multiple shepherding calls...
Today our marriage is the ENVY of our cong.!
In the meantime, the divorce rate of couples in the hall over the past decade is at least 60%, not including those who have cheated on their mates and remained married. No wonder they've scheduled this part on the service mtg.
On the other hand, I think it's just filler to keep everyone busy studying and not thinking.